{"id":2889,"date":"2022-05-17T22:16:19","date_gmt":"2022-05-17T22:16:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/poftadeviata.ro\/?p=2889"},"modified":"2022-05-17T22:20:53","modified_gmt":"2022-05-17T22:20:53","slug":"viata-i-un-pantof","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/poftadeviata.ro\/index.php\/2022\/05\/17\/viata-i-un-pantof\/","title":{"rendered":"Via\u021ba-i un pantof"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Sper s\u0103 fac\u0103 sens mesajul meu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Via\u021ba e un pantof.
Noi suntem \u00een rol de Cenu\u0219\u0103reas\u0103. Fiecare Cenu\u0219\u0103reas\u0103 cu pantoful ei, deci cu via\u021ba ei.
Pantoful meu mi se potrive\u0219te doar MIE. Viata Mea mi se potrive\u0219te doar mie.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Asa cum pantoful s-a potrivit doar Cenu\u0219\u0103resei, a\u0219a \u0219i via\u021ba noastr\u0103 ni “se potrive\u0219te” doar nou\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

De c\u00e2te ori ai auzit expresia: ” Dac\u0103 eram \u00een locul t\u0103u… f\u0103ceam asta \u0219i asta<\/strong> \u0219i cealalt\u0103”. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Eu zic BLA BLA BLA!<\/strong> (urmat de ni\u0219te ochi da\u021bi peste cap).NORMAL c\u0103 mereu poate exista cineva care este mai bun dec\u00e2t tine \u00een a face ceva, \u00een a ob\u021bine ce vrea sau \u00een a tr\u0103i via\u021ba perfect\u0103. Po\u021bi g\u0103si exper\u021bi \u00een toate ariile vie\u021bii care s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi arate c\u0103 poate dac\u0103 f\u0103ceai ceva diferit, erai mai fericit \u0219i mai bine. Daaaarr nu cred c\u0103 despre asta e vorba. Nu cred c\u0103 faptul c\u0103 te la\u0219i judecat de cei din jur este solu\u021bia.
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Este u\u0219or s\u0103 judeci o via\u021b\u0103 din exterior \u0219i doar din prisma ta. Probabil cu to\u021bii am f\u0103cut asta la un moment dat.Totul pare simplu de f\u0103cut. \u00cens\u0103 nu degeaba se spune “Put yourself in someone’s shoes”.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Fiecare via\u021b\u0103 vine cu experien\u021bele proprii, valorile, p\u0103rerile, dorin\u021bele, visurile, traumele, fricile. Toate aceste lucruri sunt Personale- \u0219i nu au drept de judecat\u0103 uman\u0103 (cred eu).
Mi-a\u0219 dori s\u0103 \u00een\u021belegem pe deplin c\u0103 suntem diferi\u021bi, c\u0103 nu trebuie s\u0103 fim de acord 100% unii cu al\u021bii pentru a fi prieteni \u0219i c\u0103 nu sta \u00een puterea noastr\u0103 de a controla tot ce \u021bine de via\u021b\u0103, decizii \u0219i visuri.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

\u0218tiu, \u0219i eu \u00eemi doresc cel mai bine pentru familia mea, pentru prietenii mei. Uneori judec g\u00e2ndind c\u0103 eu a\u0219 fi f\u0103cut mai bine, a\u0219 fi ales altceva sau a\u0219 fi ac\u021bionat \u00een alt\u0103 manier\u0103… \u00eens\u0103, fiecare este pe drumul lui. Tot ce pot s\u0103 fac eu este s\u0103 fiu bine cu mine, s\u0103 fiu cea mai bun\u0103 varianta a mea, s\u0103 pun \u00een practic\u0103 propriile sfaturi \u0219i s\u0103 tr\u0103iesc dup\u0103 propriile principii.\u00a0E greu \u00een vremurile astea c\u00e2nd fiecare persoan\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i poate da cu p\u0103rerea despre orice \u0219i oricine. G\u0103sim exper\u021bi la orice pas \u0219i la un click distan\u021b\u0103. Ne putem sim\u021bi u\u0219or pu\u0219i la perete \u0219i ar\u0103ta\u021bi cu degetul.
Mi s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat de multe ori s\u0103 vreau s\u0103 ajut, chiar s\u0103 ofer solu\u021bii unor persoane, dar p\u0103rea ca respectivele persoane nici nu m\u0103 aud, nici nu m\u0103 v\u0103d, toat\u0103 informa\u021bia sau ajutorul pe care voiam sa \u00eel ofer trecea “prin ei”.\u00a0 <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am \u00een\u021beles apoi c\u0103 fiecare are momentul potrivit de a afla lucruri, de a se vindeca, de a se schimba, de a ac\u021biona etc, iar uneori e de ajuns doar s\u0103 stau s\u0103 ascult, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 comand solu\u021bii. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am \u00een\u021beles c\u0103 nu vreau s\u0103 for\u021bez nimic, c\u0103 de\u0219i mi-a\u0219 dori, nu pot controla direc\u021bia vie\u021bii celor din jurul meu. Totul vine \u00een viata fiec\u0103ruia dintre noi atunci c\u00e2nd avem nevoie, \u0219i chiar dac\u0103 pare ca noi vrem mai mult dec\u00e2t ei \u00eens\u0103\u0219i s\u0103 fie salva\u021bi, totul pleac\u0103 din interior, din voin\u021ba \u0219i din consim\u021b\u0103m\u00e2ntul persoanei \u00een cauz\u0103. Altfel \u00eenc\u00e2t vindecarea sau ac\u021bionarea s\u0103 mearg\u0103 \u00een aceia\u0219i direc\u021bie \u0219i totul s\u0103 se lege frumos.
E interesant c\u0103 po\u021bi face bine cuiva \u0219i prin simplul fapt c\u0103-l la\u0219i s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i rezolve singur treburile. Nu trebuie s\u0103 devenim sclavii nevoilor celorlal\u021bi, consider\u00e2nd acest lucru o dovada de iubire. Nu e deloc u\u0219or s\u0103 faci acest lucru, mai ales c\u0103 poate aduce un mare sentiment de vinov\u0103\u021bie sau sentiment de stat pe margine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

then i think to myself:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Haide s\u0103 nu mai judec\u0103m prea aspru, nu \u0219tim ce tr\u0103ie\u0219te cu adev\u0103rat persoana \u00een cauz\u0103. Haide s\u0103 avem grij\u0103 doar de pantoful nostru, f\u0103r\u0103 a proba \u0219i for\u021ba altul. <\/h3>\n\n\n\n

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Sper s\u0103 fac\u0103 sens mesajul meu. Via\u021ba e un pantof. Noi suntem \u00een rol de Cenu\u0219\u0103reas\u0103. Fiecare Cenu\u0219\u0103reas\u0103 cu pantoful ei, deci cu via\u021ba ei.Pantoful meu mi se potrive\u0219te doar MIE. Viata Mea mi se potrive\u0219te doar mie. Asa cum pantoful s-a potrivit doar Cenu\u0219\u0103resei, a\u0219a \u0219i via\u021ba noastr\u0103 ni “se potrive\u0219te” doar nou\u0103. De […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":2893,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":true,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_mi_skip_tracking":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1,23],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/poftadeviata.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2889"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/poftadeviata.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/poftadeviata.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/poftadeviata.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/poftadeviata.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2889"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"https:\/\/poftadeviata.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2889\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2898,"href":"https:\/\/poftadeviata.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2889\/revisions\/2898"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/poftadeviata.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2893"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/poftadeviata.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2889"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/poftadeviata.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2889"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/poftadeviata.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2889"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}