{"id":3059,"date":"2022-07-04T19:26:22","date_gmt":"2022-07-04T19:26:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/poftadeviata.ro\/?p=3059"},"modified":"2022-07-04T21:02:39","modified_gmt":"2022-07-04T21:02:39","slug":"genul-de-fata-care","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/poftadeviata.ro\/index.php\/2022\/07\/04\/genul-de-fata-care\/","title":{"rendered":"Genul de fat\u0103 care…"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Mereu mi-am dorit s\u0103 pot r\u0103spunde simplu \u0219i direct la \u00eentreb\u0103rile “Cine sunt eu” \u0219i mai ales “de ce sunt?”. Le am scrise \u00een cele mai vechi jurnale, f\u0103r\u0103 r\u0103spunsuri \u00eenc\u0103 (sau doar \u00een g\u00e2nduri pierdute). Mi-am dorit s\u0103 m\u0103 pot defini \u00eentr-un fel sau altul, dar oarecum oscilez \u00eentre feluri (nici nu \u0219tiu cum s\u0103 explic asta prea bine). \u00cen plus, dup\u0103 minunata poveste a lui Alice, poate c\u0103 “\u0219tiam cine eram azi diminea\u021b\u0103, dar m-am mai schimbat de c\u00e2teva ori de atunci<\/strong>“. In ultimii doi ani m-am pierdut \u0219i descoperit pe mine de multe ori, am fost atent\u0103 la mine \u0219i am \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat c\u00e2teva lucruri despre mine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cele dou\u0103 \u00eentreb\u0103ri nu-mi mai stau coco\u021bate pe umeri \u0219i m-am eliberat de ele pentru a fi.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Alice \u00een \u021bara minunilor<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Ce as putea defini acum e ca sunt mai degrab\u0103 genul de fat\u0103 care<\/strong>…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

… ascult\u0103 seara pe balcon Maria T\u0103nase, Eric Clapton sau Leonard Cohen…sau Macanache;<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

… are mai mereu p\u0103rul ciufulit doritoare de volum, de\u0219i s-a chinuit o or\u0103 s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i fac\u0103 bucle- nu ies niciodat\u0103!;<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

… nu \u00ee\u0219i expune p\u0103r\u021bile vulnerabile sau dureroase;<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

… poate fi caracterizat\u0103 ne\u00eendem\u00e2natica \u0219i z\u0103p\u0103cit\u0103;<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

… are un sim\u021b justi\u021biar foarte dezvoltat, iar uneori chiar are scenarii \u00een cap unde se ceart\u0103, apar\u0103 \u0219i salveaz\u0103 toat\u0103 planeta :))<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

… prinde aripi c\u00e2nd este \u00eencurajat\u0103 \u0219i cei apropia\u021bi \u00eei arat\u0103 \u00eencredere;<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

… are credin\u021ba c\u0103 to\u021bi oamenii sunt fundamentali buni \u0219i tinde uneori<\/strong> s\u0103 nu vad\u0103 lucrurile negative (nici in ea);<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

… are nevoie aproape constant\u0103 de sprijin \u0219i consultare cu partenerul;<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

… uneori refuleaz\u0103 de \u00eencredere, iar \u00een momentul urm\u0103tor este la p\u0103m\u00e2nt cu moralul;<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

… poate fi sufletul petrecerii atunci c\u00e2nd se simte \u00een largul ei;<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

… ofer\u0103 multe \u00eencuraj\u0103ri \u0219i complimente sincere;<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

… pare ca vorbe\u0219te nonsensuri pentru c\u0103 \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103 ascund\u0103 ni\u0219te emo\u021bii;<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

… uneori lini\u0219tea \u00eentr-un cadru i se pare awkward a\u0219a c\u0103 \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103 umple spa\u021biul cu ceva- chiar \u0219i something stupid. Alteori ii place mult lini\u0219tea cu oamenii apropia\u021bi. E ca un cod secret \u00een care to\u021bi se simt safe;<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

… se bucur\u0103 sincer pentru succesul prietenilor;<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

… r\u00e2de de ea \u0219i de situa\u021biile penibile pe care le creeaz\u0103;<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

… nu are “poker face”, de fapt e total opus\u0103 \u0219i expus\u0103;<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

… se simte ciudat c\u00e2nd nu \u0219tie cum sa ajute;<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

… are un fel de “mom brain” momentan;<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

… caut\u0103 r\u0103spunsurile in c\u0103r\u021bi, are c\u0103r\u021bi despre aproape orice, \u0219i ca o mica tocilara c\u00e2nd o situa\u021bie iese de sub control caut\u0103 r\u0103spunsuri;<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

… ar putea tr\u0103i cu flori la c\u00e2t\u0103 energie prime\u0219te de la ele;<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

… iube\u0219te frumosul, arta, confortul dar \u0219i disconfortul;<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

… face \u00een fiecare zi m\u0103car un lucru pe care \u00eel iube\u0219te;<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

…are un spirit liber explorator care uneori vrea s\u0103 ajung\u0103 peste mun\u021bi \u0219i peste v\u0103i;<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

… ascunde multe frici, nesiguran\u021b\u0103 \u0219i un oarecare sentiment de anxietate;<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

… iube\u0219te maxim maxim maxim (in secret) un pui\u0219or de om numit Filip, \u0219i se \u00eentreab\u0103 “cum s-a g\u00e2ndit Dumnezeu la toate toate \u0219i le-a f\u0103cut f\u0103r\u0103 cusur?”<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
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Sunt mult mai multe lucruri pe care le-am descoperit dup\u0103 ce am devenit mam\u0103, \u00eens\u0103 acestea “in alt episod”. Nu \u0219tiu dac\u0103 descrierea de mai sus coincide cu viziunea altora despre mine, \u00eens\u0103 fiecare are “lumea lui” \u0219i propria viziune asupra ei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Probabil pe la sf\u00e2r\u0219itul vie\u021bii m\u0103 voi uita \u00een spate \u0219i voi \u0219tii sigur cine am fost \u0219i atunci voi \u00een\u021belege \u0219i de ce. ‘Om tr\u0103i \u0219i ‘om vedea!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Mereu mi-am dorit s\u0103 pot r\u0103spunde simplu \u0219i direct la \u00eentreb\u0103rile “Cine sunt eu” \u0219i mai ales “de ce sunt?”. Le am scrise \u00een cele mai vechi jurnale, f\u0103r\u0103 r\u0103spunsuri \u00eenc\u0103 (sau doar \u00een g\u00e2nduri pierdute). Mi-am dorit s\u0103 m\u0103 pot defini \u00eentr-un fel sau altul, dar oarecum oscilez \u00eentre feluri (nici nu \u0219tiu cum […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":3069,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":true,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_mi_skip_tracking":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1,24,23],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/poftadeviata.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3059"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/poftadeviata.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/poftadeviata.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/poftadeviata.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/poftadeviata.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3059"}],"version-history":[{"count":11,"href":"https:\/\/poftadeviata.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3059\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3075,"href":"https:\/\/poftadeviata.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3059\/revisions\/3075"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/poftadeviata.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3069"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/poftadeviata.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3059"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/poftadeviata.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3059"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/poftadeviata.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3059"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}