{"id":3228,"date":"2022-09-04T19:10:10","date_gmt":"2022-09-04T19:10:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/poftadeviata.ro\/?p=3228"},"modified":"2022-09-05T04:43:34","modified_gmt":"2022-09-05T04:43:34","slug":"si-cum-e-sa-ai-copil","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/poftadeviata.ro\/index.php\/2022\/09\/04\/si-cum-e-sa-ai-copil\/","title":{"rendered":"\u0218i&#8230; cum e s\u0103 ai copil?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Hmm&#8230; r\u0103m\u00e2n pe g\u00e2nduri c\u00e2teva secunde, dar \u00een capul meu trec sute de cuvinte \u0219i imagini care descriu asta&#8230; r\u0103spund rapid cu un &#8220;Bine, fain&#8230;&#8221;, dup\u0103 care de obicei urmeaz\u0103 \u0219i \u00eentrebarea &#8220;dar e greu, nu?&#8221; &#8230; <em>aici m\u0103 cam blochez pentru c\u0103 nu v\u0103d lucrurile a\u0219a. \u00centr-adevar nu e u\u0219or, sunt unele zile grele pentru p\u0103rin\u021bi- sunt situatii noi \u0219i necunoscute, sunt temeri \u0219i muuullteee griji, sunt zile cu frustr\u0103ri \u0219i zile cople\u0219itoare, nop\u021bi nedormite samd&#8230; deci Da!, uneori mai este greu, alteori greul devine u\u0219or \u0219i simplu prin iubirea care face totul s\u0103 se transforme \u00eentr-un basm.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><em>Mul\u021bi cred \u0219i spun c\u0103 este greu s\u0103 ai copil\/copii, DAAARRR nimeni nu prea spune ce prime\u0219ti la schimb pentru acel &#8220;greu&#8221;- \u0219i anume- o cantitate infinit\u0103 de sentimente \u00een\u0103l\u021b\u0103toare \u0219i inexplicabile pe care nu le-ai mai tr\u0103it \u00een via\u021ba ta: o iubire imens\u0103 care \u00ee\u021bi inund\u0103 toat\u0103 fiin\u021ba, un sentiment de \u00eemplinire \u0219i c\u0103ldur\u0103 \u0219i un val maaaare de recuno\u0219tin\u021b\u0103<\/em>, <em>veselie \u0219i mult entuziasm.<\/em><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Nu doresc s\u0103 par prea optimist\u0103 \u0219i &#8220;flower-power&#8221;, dar e bine s\u0103 punem \u00een balan\u021b\u0103 (ca doar imi dicteaz\u0103 zodia asta) \u0219i \u00een discu\u021bii ambele p\u0103r\u021bi, a\u0219a e corect. Suntem diferi\u021bi cu to\u021bii, fiecare om are via\u021ba lui \u0219i eu nu pot vorbi \u00een numele nim\u0103nui, dec\u00e2t din experien\u021ba \u0219i feelingul meu. Nu \u0219tiu cum o s\u0103 fie fiecare in ipostaza de p\u0103rinte,  \u00eens\u0103 dac\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi pui aceast\u0103 \u00eentrebare \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 deja \u021bi-ai \u0219i r\u0103spuns c\u0103 vei fi bun pentru c\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi pas\u0103. Nu trebuie s\u0103 te g\u00e2nde\u0219ti dac\u0103 e\u0219ti pregatit sa faci fa\u021b\u0103 greului (fiecare parinte e perfect pentru copilul lui), ci s\u0103 te \u00eentrebi dac\u0103 e\u0219ti preg\u0103tit s\u0103 prime\u0219ti (at\u00e2ta iubire).<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Dac\u0103 \u0219i str\u0103mo\u0219ii mei ziceau c\u0103 e greu s\u0103 ai copii, cine \u0219tie? Poate nici nu mai eram pe p\u0103m\u00e2nt as we speak ;). <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>\u00centr-un final m\u0103 trezesc \u0219i r\u0103spund simpu cu un &#8220;Da, e greu&#8230; dar \u0219i frumos!&#8221;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/poftadeviata.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/20220904_142514-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-3236\" srcset=\"https:\/\/poftadeviata.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/20220904_142514-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/poftadeviata.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/20220904_142514-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/poftadeviata.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/20220904_142514-1152x1536.jpg 1152w, https:\/\/poftadeviata.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/20220904_142514-1536x2048.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/poftadeviata.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/20220904_142514-scaled.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hmm&#8230; r\u0103m\u00e2n pe g\u00e2nduri c\u00e2teva secunde, dar \u00een capul meu trec sute de cuvinte \u0219i imagini care descriu asta&#8230; r\u0103spund rapid cu un &#8220;Bine, fain&#8230;&#8221;, dup\u0103 care de obicei urmeaz\u0103 \u0219i \u00eentrebarea &#8220;dar e greu, nu?&#8221; &#8230; aici m\u0103 cam blochez pentru c\u0103 nu v\u0103d lucrurile a\u0219a. \u00centr-adevar nu e u\u0219or, sunt unele zile grele [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":3232,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":true,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_mi_skip_tracking":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1,23],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/poftadeviata.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3228"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/poftadeviata.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/poftadeviata.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/poftadeviata.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/poftadeviata.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3228"}],"version-history":[{"count":9,"href":"https:\/\/poftadeviata.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3228\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3240,"href":"https:\/\/poftadeviata.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3228\/revisions\/3240"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/poftadeviata.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3232"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/poftadeviata.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3228"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/poftadeviata.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3228"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/poftadeviata.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3228"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}