{"id":3772,"date":"2023-01-14T06:55:30","date_gmt":"2023-01-14T06:55:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/poftadeviata.ro\/?p=3772"},"modified":"2023-03-10T09:29:07","modified_gmt":"2023-03-10T09:29:07","slug":"cum-simte-o-mama-reintoarcerea-la-lucru-dupa-concediul-de-crestere-copil","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/poftadeviata.ro\/index.php\/2023\/01\/14\/cum-simte-o-mama-reintoarcerea-la-lucru-dupa-concediul-de-crestere-copil\/","title":{"rendered":"Cum simte o mam\u0103 re\u00eentoarcerea la lucru dup\u0103 concediul de cre\u0219tere copil"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Luni, 9 Ianuarie 2023 ora 8:30 ajung la birou.<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>S\u0103 derulez pu\u021bin \u00eenapoi&#8230;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Re\u00eentoarcerea la servici dupa <strong>CCC it&#8217;s a Big Deal! <\/strong>Ceva prin care nu am mai trecut p\u00e2n\u0103 acum \u0219i nu e simplu, mai ales dac\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi dai voie s\u0103 sim\u021bi. <strong>Un cocktail de emo\u021bii- <\/strong>anxietate \u0219i entuziasm , nesiguran\u021b\u0103 \u0219i speran\u021b\u0103, reintegrare \u0219i separare, vin\u0103 \u0219i dor &#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full is-style-default\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"851\" height=\"315\" src=\"https:\/\/poftadeviata.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/20230113_221643_0001.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-3788\" srcset=\"https:\/\/poftadeviata.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/20230113_221643_0001.png 851w, https:\/\/poftadeviata.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/20230113_221643_0001-300x111.png 300w, https:\/\/poftadeviata.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/20230113_221643_0001-768x284.png 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 851px) 100vw, 851px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Ultimele c\u00e2teva s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni m-au pus pu\u021bin pe g\u00e2nduri pe m-au prins \u00een diferite st\u0103ri legate de faptul c\u0103 iat\u0103 cei doi ani de cre\u0219tere copil s-au terminat \u0219i m\u0103 re\u00eentorc la lucru. Nu sun\u0103 at\u00e2t de greu precum se simte asta. Nici acum nu-mi dau seama dac\u0103 pot descrie \u00eentr-un singur cuv\u00e2nt clar cum este aceast\u0103 re\u00eentoarcere. Poate a\u0219 folosi dou\u0103- <strong>sentimente amestecate. <\/strong>Adaptarea la job \u0219i faptul c\u0103 las copilul acas\u0103 timp de 6\/8 ore pe zi mi-au torturat g\u00e2ndurile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">P\u0103r\u021bile grele<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen primul r\u00e2nd c\u00e2nd au trecut cei doi ani?? Privind \u00een spate parc\u0103 timpul a zburat, iar acum devin <strong>melancolic\u0103<\/strong> pentru c\u0103 Filip nu mai este un bebelu\u0219, ci un copil. Nu simt c\u0103 aveam nevoie de mai mult timp, sau c\u0103 a\u0219 face ceva diferit, doar este vorba c\u0103 realizez ca \u00eencepe o nou\u0103 etap\u0103 \u0219i c\u0103 via\u021ba trece. <strong>Dorul r\u0103m\u00e2ne<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Apoi, o mare preocupare de-a mea este faptul c\u0103 am uitat at\u00e2t de multe lucruri legate de proiectele de la birou \u0219i mi se pare c\u0103 am \u0219i &#8220;mom brain&#8221;, a\u0219adar simt o <strong>nesiguran\u021b\u0103<\/strong> cu privire la c\u00e2t de repede voi \u00eenva\u021ba \u0219i c\u00e2t de bine m\u0103 voi <strong>reintegra<\/strong>. Sunt colegi noi, mediul s-a schimbat, intru \u00eentr-un colectiv destul de mare fa\u021b\u0103 de cel cu care eram obi\u0219nuit\u0103 \u00een via\u021ba de stat acas\u0103 cu copilul &#8211; toate astea mi-au mai ad\u0103ugat ceva <strong>anxietate<\/strong>. Legat de <strong>nesiguran\u021b\u0103<\/strong>, mai apare \u0219i <strong>g\u0103sirea sensului sau a sentimentului de \u00eemplinire la job<\/strong>, pentru c\u0103 eu simt c\u0103 m-am schimbat, c\u0103 &#8220;motherhood&#8217;ul&#8221; m-a schimbat \u0219i sufletul meu este acolo. \u00cens\u0103 probabil cu timpul o s\u0103 fie \u00een dou\u0103 locuri \u0219i va deveni mai u\u0219or.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen fiecare zi s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2na aceasta, de\u0219i nu am f\u0103cut vreo munc\u0103 fizic\u0103 sau intens\u0103, c\u00e2nd ajungeam acas\u0103 m\u0103 sim\u021beam <strong>stoars\u0103 de energie<\/strong> pentru c\u0103 am fost scoas\u0103 din ritmul meu. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Can we skip to the good part?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Pe cealalt\u0103 parte, exist\u0103 un <strong>entuziasm<\/strong> \u0219i o <strong>motiva\u021bie<\/strong> pentru munca mea \u0219i abia asteptam s\u0103 \u00eemi re\u00eent\u00e2lnesc vechii colegi \u0219i prieteni. Sunt curioas\u0103 de proiectele ce vor urma, sunt foarte <strong>ner\u0103bd\u0103toare s\u0103 \u00eenv\u0103\u021b <\/strong>lucruri noi \u0219i sa-mi folosesc abilit\u0103\u021bile profesionale. <strong>E un nou \u00eenceput<\/strong>. E o gura de aer&#8230; un alt aer. Pentru c\u0103 \u00een via\u021ba de cre\u0219tere copil sim\u021bi nevoia s\u0103 mai schimbi mediul, s\u0103 socializezi mai mult.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Exist\u0103 un punct bun \u0219i pentru copil, c\u00e2nd el devine independent \u0219i descoper\u0103 lumea prin propriul filtru deja, iar tu \u00eencepi s\u0103 stai pe margine. Un alt punct bun este c\u0103 m\u0103 uit la poze cu Filip de 10x\/zi, poze de c\u00e2nd era bebelu\u0219-bebelu\u0219 care s\u0103 mi se \u00eentip\u0103reasca in memorie :)).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Allsooo, nimic nu se compar\u0103 cu momentul revederii c\u00e2nd ajung acas\u0103&#8230; ceva ce doar mamele pot sim\u021bi. \u2764<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pentru c\u0103 am trecut de prima s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103 cu brio \u0219i &#8220;am supravie\u021buit!!&#8221; \u0219i eu \u0219i Filip, pot spune c\u0103 <strong>au fost c\u00e2teva lucruri care mi-au f\u0103cut revenirea mai u\u0219oar\u0103:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul>\n<li>O primire c\u0103lduroas\u0103 din partea colegilor- pentru mine personal asta a fost foarte important (i&#8217;m a people person) \u0219i faptul ca mi-am dat seama ca am colegi cool m-a lini\u0219tit. De asemenea, m-am \u00eent\u00e2lnit \u0219i cu alte m\u0103mici exact \u00een aceia\u0219i situa\u021bie ca \u0219i mine \u0219i ne-am sus\u021binut reciproc. E bine s\u0103 sim\u021bi c\u0103 nu e\u0219ti singur.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Am fost \u00eemp\u0103cat\u0103 cu faptul c\u0103 l-am l\u0103sat pe Filip acas\u0103 pe m\u00e2ini foarte bune. <\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Faptul c\u0103 dispun de flexibilitate la job este un g\u00e2nd care m\u0103 consoleaz\u0103 \u0219i este un beneficiu;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Organizarea zilnic\u0103 mai bun\u0103- de la trezirea devreme, preg\u0103tirea hainelor de lucru din timp, p\u00e2n\u0103 la organizarea mai buna a task-urilor;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li> Preg\u0103tirea sau mai degrab\u0103 acceptarea unui rollercoaster de emo\u021bii;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>De\u0219i timpul petrecut cu copilul a fost mai scurt, a fost de calitate, \u00een care am fost mai prezenta \u0219i implicat\u0103 \u00een joac\u0103.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Vineri, 13 ianuarie 2023 scriu asta cu puiul in bra\u021be. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Nu e u\u0219or, dar o s\u0103 fie!<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-style-default\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/poftadeviata.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/18_20230113_221136_0002-1024x1024.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-3789\" srcset=\"https:\/\/poftadeviata.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/18_20230113_221136_0002-1024x1024.png 1024w, https:\/\/poftadeviata.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/18_20230113_221136_0002-300x300.png 300w, https:\/\/poftadeviata.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/18_20230113_221136_0002-150x150.png 150w, https:\/\/poftadeviata.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/18_20230113_221136_0002-768x768.png 768w, https:\/\/poftadeviata.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/18_20230113_221136_0002.png 1080w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Luni, 9 Ianuarie 2023 ora 8:30 ajung la birou. S\u0103 derulez pu\u021bin \u00eenapoi&#8230; Re\u00eentoarcerea la servici dupa CCC it&#8217;s a Big Deal! Ceva prin care nu am mai trecut p\u00e2n\u0103 acum \u0219i nu e simplu, mai ales dac\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi dai voie s\u0103 sim\u021bi. Un cocktail de emo\u021bii- anxietate \u0219i entuziasm , nesiguran\u021b\u0103 \u0219i speran\u021b\u0103, reintegrare [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":3787,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_mi_skip_tracking":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1,23],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/poftadeviata.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3772"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/poftadeviata.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/poftadeviata.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/poftadeviata.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/poftadeviata.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3772"}],"version-history":[{"count":15,"href":"https:\/\/poftadeviata.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3772\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3791,"href":"https:\/\/poftadeviata.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3772\/revisions\/3791"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/poftadeviata.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3787"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/poftadeviata.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3772"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/poftadeviata.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3772"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/poftadeviata.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3772"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}